I heard it once said
that a good example has twice the value of a good advice. I came across a
powerful leadership story that I would like to share which highlights what is leading by example all about.
We always think that to be a leader, an individual must have an ability to
motivate group of people towards a common goal. Being a leader is very
different than being a boss. Its role is similar to a father who has
responsibility to lead and guide his family, from the birth of his children
until they grow up and complete their study in addition to being a successful
person in the future. This is a common goal for every big happy family.
My father is not a famous and a career-oriented person, but
till now I regard him as a highly educated individual. I have learnt from his
actions, not by words alone and he would always teach and show me how to be a
leader. My father was a lorry driver and a very hardworking person to support
his family. He made sure that his children will get a better life in future and
do not follow his footsteps as a lorry driver. I remembered on one day sweet
day during school holiday, he brought his children, one by one to experience
the hardship and difficulties of his work so that this experience would become
a valuable lesson.
I have eight siblings and it was my turn to accompany my
father to work as a lorry driver, loading timber to Pasir Gudang, Johor. Along
the journey, I tried not to sleep because I wanted to chat with my father so
that he would not feel sleepy too. I asked my father, why he had chosen the job
as a lorry driver. He answered, “Never turn down any golden opportunity
in future because I made a mistake when rejected a good opportunity and the
opportunity will not come back because it only comes once in a lifetime”. I was surprised by
my father's saying that opportunity will not reappear on a second time. After
we had a chat, I realised that my father had received an offer to be an English
teacher at Alor Star, Kedah. He rejected that offer just because he wanted to
travel and live independently.
From that experience, I was committed and made great stride
to study hard so that I will not let down my family’s hope. Even though
my father could not spend time together with his family members, but whenever
he returned back and on leave, he would ask the progress of our studies. At
times, he advised me not to focus on extra-curricular activities too much
because he was worried that I could not concentrate on my studies. I had to convince
him that I would not neglect my studies while participating in extra-curricular
activities. I realised that as a leader, an individual could not focus on two
different things at the same time. But as a child, we had to convince our
parents and double-up our efforts so that we could reach our aspiration
successfully.
F. John Reh mentioned that a leader has a vision. Leaders
see a problem that needs to be fixed or a goal that needs to be achieved. It
may be something that no one else wants to tackle. Whatever it is, it is the
focus of the leader’s attention and they work on it with a
single-minded determination. They have a clear goal in mind and committed to
get there. Whether anyone else shares that vision or not, they push forward
towards it. They do not allow anything or anyone else’s fears or doubts get
in the way of them reaching their goal. They are always positive that they will
get there.
One of the leaders I want to highlight is Malcolm X, also
known as El-Hajj Malik El-Shabazz, born on May 19, 1925 in Omaha, Nebraska. His
mother Louise Norton Little suffered emotional breakdown several years after
the death of her husband. It was rumored that Malcolm X’s father died because
he was killed by white supremacists. His mother was committed to a mental
institution, Kalamazoo State Hospital. Her children were separated and sent to
various foster homes and orphanages and at that time, Malcolm X was thirteen.
Malcolm was a smart, focused student. He graduated from junior high at the top
of his class. However, when a favorite teacher responded to Malcolm that his
dream of becoming a lawyer was “no realistic goal for a nigger”, it made Malcolm
felt hat the white world offered no place for a career-oriented black man, regardless
of his talent. Malcolm then lost interest in school.
He dropped out, spent some time in
Boston, Massachusetts working various odd jobs, and then traveled to Harlem,
New York where he committed petty crimes. By 1943, Malcolm was engaged in drug
dealing, gambling, racketeering, robbery and pimping. In 1946, Malcolm and his
friend Shorty Jarvis were arrested and convicted on burglary charges, and
Malcolm was sentenced to 10 years in prison. But he was paroled after serving
an eight to ten year sentence at Charlestown State Prison.
Normally people would prefer to share those have a nice,
special and qualities background, but for me, I like to share about Malcolm X
because he was one of the victims of discrimination which always happen in the
world, in which those who have capabilities and potentials to lead, will give
up and become a person that they would never want to be. This happened to
Malcolm. Recalling his days while in prison, he used the time to further his
education. It was during the period of self-enlightenment that Malcolm’s brother, Reginald
visited and discussed his recent conversion to Muslim religion. Intrigued,
Malcolm begun to study the teachings of the Nation of Islam (NOI) leader
Ellijah Muhammad and in late 1948, Malcolm wrote to Muhammad who advised him to
renounce his past, humbly bow in prayer to Allah, and promised not to engage in
destructive behavior again.
Intelligent and articulate, Malcolm was appointed as a
minister and national spokesman for the NOI. Ellijah Muhammad also charged him
in establishing new mosques in cities such as Detroit, Michigan and Harlem, New
York. Malcolm utilised newspaper columns, as well as radio and television to
communicate the NOI's message across the United States. His charisma and conviction
attracted an astounding number of new members. Malcolm was largely credited
with increasing membership in the NOI from 500 in 1952 to 30,000 in 1963.
Malcolm said that, “I am not educated, nor am I an expert
in any particular field.... but I am sincere and my sincerity is my credential".
Since joining the NOI, Malcolm had strictly adhered to the teachings of
Muhammad – which included remaining celibate until his marriage to
Betty Shabazz in 1958. Malcolm refused Muhammad’s request for help to
cover up the affairs and subsequent children. He was deeply hurt by deception
of Muhammad, whom he had considered a living prophet. In March 1964, Malcolm
terminated his relationship with the NOI and decided to found his own religious
organisation, the Muslim Mosque Inc. In that same year, Malcolm went on
pilgrimage to Mecca, Saudi Arabia and the trip proved life altering, returned
to the United States with a new outlook on integration and a new hope for the
future. This time when Malcolm spoke, instead of just preaching to
African-Americans, he had a message for all races. Then he knew, human right is
something you were born with. Human right is your God-given rights. Human
rights are the rights that are recognised by all nations of this earth.
Referring to the debate was Martin Luther King Jr. or
Malcolm X is the great leaders, one out of ten said that Malcolm was a great
leader even though Malcolm was a drug dealer, drug user and gambler. Yet, he
took it upon himself to learn to read, to learn to articulate and hone his
speech, to learn proper mannerisms, to stand as a man, to learn the politics
and ways of the world. These qualities were not given nor trained to him but he
earned it and learned it by his own. He ever said, "Without education,
you're not going anywhere."
He was extremely militant, a separatist, border lining
hatred for his Caucasian counterparts. However, after came back from Mecca,
Malcolm became a real man and realised that he was wrong. Malcolm X believed
that before we go to someone else's house, we must clean up our own. In other
words, Malcolm X believed that in order for us to excel in this
"integrated" society, we must
get ourselves together first. We must build ourselves up, so we are strong
enough and resilient enough to come together with other races for common good.
He was not a racist, nor is anyone that believes in his teachings. He merely
believed that if the United State is a melting pot for various nationalities as
it claims to be, then we must be strong and proud and, most importantly,
knowledgeable of our own history and heritage before we can learn about others.
He believed in Black Pride. That doesn't make the man a racist. It makes him a
black nationalist. One of Malcolm X's famous quotes is, "I am not a
racist. I am against every form of racism and segregation, every form of
discrimination. I believe in human beings, and that all human beings should respect
as such, regardless of their colour".
After leaving the NOI, Malcolm X announced his willingness
to work with leaders of the civil rights movement, though he felt that it could
change its focus to human rights. Malcolm X declared that he and the other
members of the Organization of Afro-American Unity were determined to defend
themselves from aggressors, and to secure freedom, justice and equality
"by whatever means necessary", arguing that if the government was
unwilling or unable to protect black
people, they should protect themselves. Because of Malcolm was one of the
charismatic spokesman, there were a few people did not like it. He received
many death threats from Nation of Islam members. His home in New York, in
Queens, was set on fire on February 14, 1965 a week before his death. The
February 22, New York Times, presented quotation from an interview he gave on
Feb. 18, "I'm a marked man. It doesn't frighten me for myself as long as I
felt they will not hurt my family. No one can get out without trouble, and this
thing with me will be resolved by death and violence".
Malcolm X has been described as one of the greatest and most
influential African Americans in history. He is credited with raising the
self-esteem of Black Americans and reconnecting them with their African
heritage. He is largely responsible for the spread of Islam in the black
community in the United States. Many African Americans especially those who
lived in cities in the Northern and Western United States, felt that Malcolm X
articulated their complaints concerning inequality better than the mainstream
civil rights movement did.
On Feb. 21, 1965, the former NOI leader Malcolm X was shot
and killed by assassins identified as Black Muslims as he was about to address
the Organization of Afro-American Unity at the Audubon Ballroom in Harlem. He
was 39. Within days of the assassination, questions were raised about who bore
ultimate responsibility. On February 23, James Farmer, the leader of the
Congress of Racial Equality, announced at a news conference that local drug
dealers, and not the NOI, were to blame. Others accused the NYPD, the FBI, or
the CIA, citing the lack of police protection, the ease with which the
assassins entered the Audubon Ballroom, and the failure of the police to
preserve the crime scene.
For many, Malcolm X is a cultural hero and a symbol of black
pride and social protest. What does his legacy mean? In various opinions,
should this complex, self-made civil rights and spiritual leader be remembered
for the messages he advocated for a majority of his public life or for the
reformed beliefs of his later life.
February 1965: The Final Speeches book by Malcolm X is an interesting
collection of speeches that shows that the extraordinary transformation Malcolm
X made during the few years following his journey to Mecca and Africa and his
break with the Nation of Islam. It underscores the fact he was in the midst of
broadening his views from the strict black nationalism of Elijah Muhammad and
beginning to embrace the Pan-Africanism embodied in his Organization of
Afro-American Unity at the time of his assassination. In which collected
together for the first time are the speeches and interviews of the Malcolm X
from the last three weeks of his life. One of his famous quotations in his
speech is, "We declare our right in this earth....to be a human being, to
be respected as a human being, to be given the rights of human being in this
society, on this earth, in this day, which we intend to bring into existence by
any means necessary."
Besides that Malcolm X always remind the society especially
to the youth regarding their behaviour and education. He said that, "Education
is the passport to the future, for
tomorrow belongs to the people who prepare for it today". And to the
youth, teenagers and students, he kept remind that don't do a same mistake what
he have done before.
As conclusion, why I have chosen Malcolm X and his
leadership skills here, not because he was a drug dealer, gambler, and racism
person, but from the other side, how he survived from the discrimination just
because he was a Black American or they were always call 'nigger', even though,
he was a great student in high school. He developed of his self-education in
prison, and of his attraction to, and eventual prominence in, the Nation of
Islam. In the late 1960s, as black activists became more radical, Malcolm X and
his teachings were part of foundation on which they built their movements. The
Black Power movement, The Black Arts Movement, and the widespread adoption of
the motto "Black is beautiful" can all trace their roots to Malcolm
X.
There are so many memorials and tributes to Malcolm X. It
will help people especially Black American remember and knew his legacy. He was
very strong and never showed his fear of the threatening to kill him and he
what just he said is, as long as they will never hurt his family. If I'm in his
shoe, I scared to see people and give a speech to the public. It shows that,
how Malcolm X serious with his responsibility regarding the human being and
human rights. Norman Allen quoted that, "Skill in the art of communication
is crucial to a leader's success. He can accomplish nothing unless he can
communicate effectively".
NAI, Sidang C
DPA 1/2012